Natural Hair Care: Dealing With Dryness

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I think every Natural, especially New hit the Dryness mark. I call it the 'Dryness Plato'.
"I can never keep my hair Moisturized." "My hair is so dry all the time." "I moisturize my hair all the time and still nothing!" "I cannot keep dealing with this, can you please help me!"

Been there, but how do you get over that if you are currently THERE???

My first questions are what is your hair routine?
What oils/products do you use?
How Often do you Shampoo your hair?
Do you do Hot Oil Treatments and how often?

Your Texture, as well as your hair and scalp needs in general need to be looked at. Also please keep in mind that what might help ONE Natural Hair Beauty will not necessarily help YOU!

One of the biggest leads to Dryness/Can't keep moisture is Over-Shampooing.

We Shampoo our hair to get the dirt, clean the hair, the pores. To generalize it. But how often do you Shampoo your hair and what kind do you use?
We live in a Society that is very into Grooming and those with Straight hair/Oily hair are always washing their hair to get the oils out. That's great except we need to put and KEEP oils IN our hair. You cannot follow the lead of hair that isn't yours!
You can't Shampoo your hair 3 Times out of the week. You're stripping your hair of oils as soon as you saturate your head with it pretty much.
If you using a Sulfate filled Shampoo then you really are leaving no oils behind, even natural oils and you must fully condition (recommend Deep Condition ((DC))) to replace that stripped oils and moisture.

"But I workout a lot/sweat a lot. I don't want my hair to smell."
Fully noted. Using NATURAL products e.g; Coconut Oil/Jojoba Oil/Avocado Oil, will aid in not only moisturizing your hair but also be clean to use and won't just sit on your hair/scalp. If you are someone who feels they must Shampoo 2 times a week then COWASH (Conditioner ONLY wash) your hair every other time you would normally Shampoo. Then work your way down from there.
Some Curlies don't even use Shampoo, they just strictly Co-Wash - usually based on personal preference. As your hair growths and you learn more about hair care, you also learn more about your own hair care needs.

"No matter how much I use my hair is always thirsty!"
I can most definitely relate to this one. I have 4B/4C hair and not only does my hair get major thirsty if I don't have my proper hair routine but my Scalp gets dry fast and here comes the flaking.

Do you do Hot Oil Treatments? Better yet, HAVE YOU?
Hot Oil Treatments are great for getting moisture into your hair as well as working with any Dryness you have hair OR scalp wise! Also a great way of keeping oils in your hair while washing. Some Store bought HOTs will say to apply after washing. Personally, I feel it's more effective before washing.
I do HOTs before I Shampoo and then I Deep Condition right after I shampoo.
If you have Trouble with HOTs, do you apply heat your heat while you have it covered? Your hair might be Low Porosity so the cuticle is very hard to get moisture in. Heat will help open up the cuticle to allow moisture/oils in.

A Great Pre-Poo is Coconut Oil. It opens up the hair shaft, allowing moisture in and also helps when it comes to Shampooing so your hair isn't being completely ripped of oils and 'bone dry'.
Pre-Pooing also helps with your Conditioning, it has something to hold onto and get into the hair better, faster, and you'll have softer/shiner hair!

Coconut Oil actually Relaxes my curl so I don't like washing with it. I have a Pre-Poo Mixture of Extra Virgin Olive Oil - Jamaican Black Castor Oil - Jojoba Oil - Wheat Germ Oil, Rosemary, Tea Tree that's in a Spray Bottle w/Water. I Saturate my hair with this before I CoWash.

Are you someone who puts heat on their head? Did you just color your hair? Then you might need a Protein Treatment!
Old Fashion Mayo w/an Egg and if you have some oils you want to add will Doctor your head up.

The LOC Method has also been on the Rise lately. Liquid - Oil - Cream/Butter. After washing your hair, you put in your Leave-In Conditioner, then Oil on your hair to help Seal in the moisture and then your favorite Styling Butter/Cream to help retain and maintain moisture.

Usually the cause of the Dryness is not necessarily the product/oils you are using but how your hair is taking them.

The further you go along in your hair journey the more you learn about the wants and needs of your hair. What causes it dryness and how to maintain moisture.

I get really dry hair and scalp, my Routine is CoWashing every 3-4 Days. If I've been in Protective Styling majority of the week/low strand exposure then Once a Week.
Pre-Poo before CoWashing.
Every other Week I Shampoo - Homemade Hot Oil Treatment (Jojoba Oil, JBCO, Wheat Germ Oil, Glycerin, Rosemary, Peppermint). Then I spritz my hair with a Coconut Oil/Water mixture with Lavendar/Glycerin/Castor Oil to open up my strands. Put on a Heat Cap for a good Hour to make sure. Deep Condition after Shampooing - Castor Oil as well as Wheat Germ added to it.

After rinsing that out I put in my Leave-In. Oil my scalp with JBCO, Avocado, Extra Virgin Olive, Jojoba, Sweet Almond w/Essential Oils. Massage my scalp very well with this.

Put my hair in a protective style using a Cream.

I oil my scalp every day/every other day to prevent flaking from Dermatitis.

Hope this is helpful :-).

Manic Panic Dye on Natural Hair (Afro/Ethnic)

Hello Everyone!
Meaning to do this post almost 2 months ago but wanted to wait :-).

I know there are those Naturals out there who do want to Experiment with color but do not want the Possibility of Breakage or you lightened your hair already with a Developer/Bleach and would like to add some Color without adding more harsh chemicals. Here comes in Manic Panic Semi-Permanent Hair Dye.

If you don't have any lightening in your hair don't fret. You can get color using this product but you will need to let it sit longer.

NOTE: IF YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR POROSITY IN YOUR HAIR IS, IF IT IS LOW AND YOU HAD A HARD TIME GETTING MANIC PANIC TO STAY THEN I SUGGEST YOU DO IT ON CLEAN DRY HAIR AND ALSO USE A HEAT CAP TO OPEN UP THE HAIR CUTICLE. IF YOU NEED TO SLEEP WITH IT OVERNIGHT THEN DO SO! If you're afraid of damage don't be.

Now I'm not big on Semi-Dyes because they Bleed. As in the color rinses out/comes out as you wash your hair. Depending on the Brand and color (as well as what you put in your hair) will depend on how long it lasts in your hair before completely fading to a off-lighter color further from the original. But I got bored with my Blonde. I had been growing my roots out as I tried to make up my mind on what I wanted to do with my hair. Finally I decided I wanted a Red color but nothing permanent until I made up my mind completely.

Manic Panic is NOT Harsh on your hair. It is Vegan Friendly. It's kind of like a Conditioner with Color Dye in it.
You can freely play with the colors and not feel the brittle/dry/fragile results that can come with Chemical dyes right after rinsing out.
You CAN mix the colors to get the Preferred color of your choice and with that Said I HIGHLY suggest doing so since they actually only come in very Vibrant/Bold colors. If you want a Rich Brown, Burgundy, you will need to mix Colors.

With that said, I wanted a Burgundy so I bought Vampire Red which is one of the Darkest Reds they have. It is a very Crimson/Bloody Red color on it's own. Purple Haze is their Standard/Dark Purple.

Materials Needed:
Dye(s) of your Choice
Gloves
Bowl to Mix if you are using more than 1 color and need to Blend it.
Color Brush (it does help) if you don't want to just use your hands.
Styling Cape or Your Least Favorite Shirt.

I used a Styling Cape. As well as I had Hair Wrap papers I never used so they came in handy for me to tie around my neck.

Side Note: I would not Wash this out in your Tub or you will need to get a good cleaning agent to help get the staining out. If you have a Stainless Steel Sink or a Basement with a Sink you use for Washing clothes, etc I would rinse/wash your head in there. At least for the first 1-2 times you need to wash your head.

I wasn't sure how much of what color I would need so I slowly mixed each color together until I got the Ideal color I liked:

I actually did end up using a 1:1 Ratio with both Colors. I thought it would be a 1:2 with Purple being 1 and Red being 2 for the color I wanted, I actually purchased 2 Vampire Reds because my hair is thick, I wasn't sure how it would be.

Now since I did use BOTH Colors, that was 2 Containers used. I have 4B/4C Hair and it is thick. So don't let my Shrinkage fool you on my Length! If you have Short/Fine hair then 1 is Plenty. If it is thick, get 2 Containers if you are not Mixing.

Applying:

For best Results I would apply this to clean dry hair. There are no harsh chemicals. You don't have that chemical smell with this product so you don't need a product barrier on your strands. Again this is like a Conditioner with Dye. The Cleaner the hair, the better the results and deeper the color is saturated on your strands.

I don't do Strand Tests. I am a big risk taker, why yes I am, lol. This is the color compared to the blonde of my hair and my Towel which is a Black/Purple-Burgundy color.

My whole head now with the color and I let this marinate on my head for about 2-3 Hours. The longer you let it set under a Cap the better the color will stay.

For Washing, all the Color will not wash out. You to Rinse your hair with a Cool/Warm water. I did use a Shampoo to get some of the color out but that is not Recommended. You keep rinsing your hair until the Water is mostly clear.

Results:

My Hair after 6 weeks:

The Color is holding up pretty well. I Shampoo every 2 weeks. Co-Wash Mid-Week/Once a week.

And here's my hair from the Weekend:

Webcam Picture but it actually does show the Fading well. The color is still there but it is faded. I will probably do a Touch-Up Next Weekend.
Hope this is Helpful :-).